If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably tried every productivity app under the sun, convinced that this time, it would be different. I’ve had my fair share of digital tools, reminders, and to-do lists, all in an effort to juggle the chaos of building my business while managing life at home. And yet, there’s one thing I always seem to come back to: accountability.
As busy women, especially those of us who are balancing family life and entrepreneurship, we often think we should be able to power through solo. But let me tell you: the real secret to productivity isn’t being a one-woman show – it’s working together. And sometimes, all it takes is a little external support to get the ball rolling.
The Power of Collective Focus
There’s a reason why we get more done when we have someone to lean on. I can’t count the number of times I’ve sat down to work, only to get distracted by laundry, a school run, or the million other things on my mind (aka the mother’s load). But the minute I hop on a virtual co-working session with a group of like-minded women? Game changer. The presence of others, even virtually, automatically raises my productivity. Studies show that we’re naturally more motivated and focused when we work around others, even if they’re just “there” in the background. It’s called the social facilitation effect, and it’s backed by science. You’ve probably experienced it: when you’re working with someone else, you just get stuff done.
The ‘Body Double’ Effect: Why Having Company Helps
This one really hit home for me. There are days when the overwhelm makes it hard to start even simple tasks. But when I have someone working alongside me, I feel more motivated. This is the body double effect – the idea that having someone else present, even if they’re not actively interacting with you, helps with focus and getting things started. It’s not about surveillance or pressure; it’s just a friendly reminder that you’re not alone in this.
Why Virtual Coworking Is the Game Changer
For years, I thought I needed a physical co-working space to feel productive. But, let’s be real – who has the time for a commute when you’re managing a business and raising kids? Enter: virtual co-working. It’s the perfect blend of accountability and flexibility. No commute. No pressure to socialise. Just a group of focused individuals, working on their own things but sharing the same energy. I can pop in for an hour, knock out a task, and then get back to my family – no sweat.
Turning Sunday Night Dread into Motivation
Let’s face it, Sunday night often comes with a wave of dread, doesn’t it? The Monday blues hit hard, and it feels like there’s always more to do than hours in the day. But here’s a little secret: dedicating just one focused hour on Sunday evening to plan and organize your week ahead changes everything. I started doing this recently, and it has transformed the way I approach my workweek. Instead of stressing out about everything I have to do, I’ve found that getting clear and setting some intentions on Sunday gives me momentum that lasts through the week.
The Real Cost of Going Solo
I’m no stranger to working in isolation. It happens when you’re trying to build something from scratch, and sometimes it feels like no one really “gets” what you’re going through. But after a while, working alone can lead to procrastination, decision fatigue, and burnout. Trust me, I’ve been there. Without someone to check in with or bounce ideas off, you end up wasting more energy than you’d like. When we don’t have someone to hold us accountable, it’s easy to let things slide. And we all know that leads to higher stress and even more tasks piling up.
Who Thrives with Accountability?
Here’s the thing – accountability is for everyone. You don’t have to be struggling to benefit from it. Whether you’re:
- A busy mompreneur trying to juggle your business and family,
- A remote worker who misses office energy,
- A creative freelancer craving structure,
- Or someone who just works better with a little accountability…
Accountability works. I know it helps me show up for myself and my business in ways I couldn’t do alone.
Building Sustainable Success Through Accountability
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that success doesn’t happen by accident. It’s about showing up consistently, even when motivation is low. That’s why having a system – like regular accountability check-ins – keeps me on track. It helps me create habits, build momentum, and make progress week after week. Whether you’re making big business moves or just trying to organise your life, accountability creates the structure we need to get things done. And trust me, it works.
I’ve seen it in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. So, if you’ve ever wondered how others manage to keep moving forward while balancing everything life throws at them – now you know. It’s not about working harder; it’s about having the right systems and people in place to keep you going.
And if you need a little extra support, you don’t have to do it alone. Join a community, get the accountability you deserve, and watch your business and your life, transform.
Introducing: The Brew & Do Club
This is my response to all of the above. Join us every Sunday 8-9pm GMT for focused work time. No networking, no small talk – just peaceful productivity alongside other motivated individuals.
For £7/month, you will experience:
• A weekly power hour for focused work
• Friday reflection prompts to track progress
• Monthly themes for continuous growth
• A supportive community that understands
Ready to turn Sunday evening anxiety into productive momentum? Join the Brew & Do Club
Your future self will thank you for showing up.
You can register now via my website: https://janedevos.thrivecart.com/brewdoclub/
See you there!